Couples Retreats
Some couples come
to sa for the Scenery
Ours come to find each other again.
A private, facilitated intimacy retreat - led by Carol Momberg - on the Garden Route.
For couples ready to do the real work of reconnection, in one of the world's most extraordinary settings.
From R55,500 per couple · Private · One couple at a time · Enquire to book
WHAT MAKES THIS DIFFERENT
This is not a Group retreat
Not therapy.
Not a spa weekend with candles.
The Consensuality Retreat is a rare thing – a deeply private, fully facilitated intimacy experience for one couple at a time. Led personally by Carol Momberg and her curated team of specialists, it combines emotional depth, erotic exploration, sensory experience, and genuine transformation in a way that no other offering in the world quite replicates.
You stay at Naughty by Nature – our adults-only luxury cabin on a macadamia nut farm in Wilderness. You have it entirely to yourselves. And over the course of your stay, Carol and her team guide you through a journey that most couples describe as the single most powerful experience of their relationship.
"We've travelled the world and never experienced a retreat this intimate, luxurious, and powerful."
— D & V
CHOOSE YOUR JOURNEY
Three retreat experiences. Choose yours.
RECONNECTION RETREAT
The Long Weekend
R55,500
PRICE PER COUPLE
DOLLAR PRICING AVAILABLE ON REQUEST
Per couple · 3 nights · Fri check-in, mon check-out
The perfect beginning.
A luxurious long weekend that pulls you out of routine and guides you gently back into each other – emotionally, erotically, and energetically.
- Private luxury cabin – exclusive use
- Guided intimacy journey with Carol
- Consensuality workbook & rituals
- Sensory couples massage
- Welcome grazing & breakfast baskets
- Braai experience & private chef dinner
- Access to full playroom & all cabin tools
You will leave feeling emotionally closer, sexually reawakened, understood, seen, and desired.
IMMERSION RETREAT ✦ FLAGSHIP
The Full Journey
Up to R145,000
PRICE PER COUPLE
DOLLAR PRICING AVAILABLE ON REQUEST
Per couple · Up to 7 nights · Custom-built around you
The closest you can come to pressing reset on your relationship.
A deep, spacious immersion designed for couples ready for profound change — in how they connect, communicate, and desire each other.
Chosen from:
- Everything in the Reconnection Retreat
- Multi-day guided erotic & emotional exploration
- Boudoir photography session
- Energy & bodywork healing session
- Blue lotus & cacao ceremonies
- Sensory meals crafted for awakening
- Erotic embodiment & foreplay frameworks
- Relational coaching & communication tools
- Romantic experiences you’ll talk about for years
You will leave transformed as a couple — erotically alive, emotionally aligned, fully reconnected in desire, devotion, and intimacy.
ADVENTURE RETREAT · SELF-GUIDED
Wilderness, Together
R138,000
PRICE PER COUPLE
DOLLAR PRICING AVAILABLE ON REQUEST
Per couple · 5 nights, extend to 7 · Arrivals most weeks
Rather have an adventure?
No facilitator, no sessions, nothing to process out loud. The Garden Route at full volume by day, and each other by night.
- Private luxury cabin – exclusive use
- Microlight flight – two aircraft, side by side over the coastline
- Private game drive at Buff & Fellow
- Sunset cruise on the Knysna Lagoon
- Gourmet beach picnic, set up and packed away around you
- Private chef – every meal cooked for you
- Couples massage & self-guided cacao ritual
You’ll leave with stories you’ll still be telling in ten years, and a lot less rust.
LED PERSONALLY BY CAROL MOMBERG
Every retreat is led by Carol. Not a proxy. Not a team member. Carol.
Carol Momberg is a South African intimacy coach, retreat facilitator, and the founder of Consensuality. She built this methodology from her own journey — from years of disconnection and performance to a life of full erotic aliveness — because she refused to believe that settling was the only option.
Her approach combines science, somatics, shadow work, and genuine warmth. She has worked with couples across South Africa and internationally, and has been featured on KFM, garden route lifestyle magazin and Algoa FM.
When you book a Consensuality Retreat, you get Carol. Her full attention, her full heart, and her full expertise — for the entire duration of your stay.
Lead Facilitator
Intimacy coach and retreat guide. Present for every moment of your stay. The anchor of the entire experience.
Boudoir Photographer
A private session that helps you see each other — and yourselves — through a completely new lens. Transformative for most couples.
Private Chef
Sensory meals designed to awaken the body and slow everything down. Food as foreplay. Crafted entirely for you.
Energy & Bodywork Healer
Deep somatic work that clears relational tension and opens the body to receive — individually and together.
THE SETTING — WILDERNESS, GARDEN ROUTE
You could do this anywhere. We chose here deliberately.
Wilderness is one of South Africa’s most enchanting destinations — where mountains, lakes, indigenous forests, and pristine beaches converge in a landscape that feels genuinely otherworldly.
Naughty by Nature sits on a serene macadamia nut farm, surrounded by mountain views, birdsong, and wide open skies. A short walk leads to a tranquil freshwater lake, perfect for sunrise paddleboarding and slow, intimate afternoons.
The area is safe, quiet, deeply restorative — and known for its natural magic. The ideal backdrop for the work you’re here to do.
is this Retreat for you?
Come if you want —
- A genuine relationship reset — not a band-aid
- Deeper emotional safety and real communication
- An erotic connection that actually feels alive
- Luxury, privacy, and complete freedom
- An experience that stays with you for years
- Time to remember who you are — together
Not the right fit if you want —
- A group retreat or shared experience
- A party weekend or casual getaway
- Clinical therapy or crisis intervention
- A budget-friendly option
This is for couples who value their relationship enough to invest in it. Fully, properly, without compromise.
WHAT COUPLES SAY
ENQUIRE AVAILABLE DATES
This experience is by enquiry only.
Every retreat is tailored to the couple. To ensure it’s the right fit – and that we can create exactly the experience you need – we begin with a private, no-obligation call with Carol.
Spaces are strictly limited. One couple at a time.
International travel arrangements, airport transfers, and accommodation extensions available on request.