Wilderness, Garden Route
Somewhere between the to-do lists and the group chats, you two became excellent flatmates.
Most couples don't fall out of love. They fall into a routine. We get you out of it.
A private adults-only cabin in Wilderness, retreats with me, and the intimacy education nobody gave you.
★★★★★ Five stars from every couple, every stay
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AS SEEN & FEATURED ON
SOUND FAMILIAR?
- You talk about logistics more than you talk about each other.
- Sex happens when it happens. And it happens less.
- You still love each other. You just can't remember the last time you really wanted each other.
That's not the end of anything. It's a sign you need a door that locks, and a reason to use it.
Pick your door.
Four ways in.
Stay
Naughty by Nature
Two nights, a wood-fired hot tub, a playroom, a treasure hunt and nobody knocking. The birthday gift she’ll never top, or the weekend you finally find each other again.
Go deeper
Private Retreats
A private, fully facilitated intimacy retreat, personally hosted by me, one couple at a time. A long weekend or a full week of the deepest work you’ll ever do together.
Rather have an adventure? Wilderness, Together gives you the Garden Route, a private chef and the cabin.
From R55,500 per couple
Bring it home
A lovers' ritual for two · New
A lovers’ ritual for two.
A month-long love affair with your own partner, delivered to your door. Slow, playful, and just naughty enough. What’s inside stays a secret until you open it. Who you are to each other by the end of the month won’t.
Founding Edition: the first 30 boxes are R1,799, numbered, with a handwritten note from me. Then R2,222.
R1,799 for the founding 30 · Free delivery · Ships by 5 February
Propose here
The Proposal
Ask the question somewhere with a twist. Styling, a chef, a photographer, a musician, and a second day that gives you tools for the whole marriage.
Hi, I'm Carol.
I built Consensuality because I know what it feels like to share a bed with someone you love and feel completely alone in it.
I spent years performing intimacy instead of feeling it. And I’ve done the training, plenty of it. But no course is what broke my guilt. Permission did. The day I stopped waiting for it from my culture, my industry or anyone else, and built this business on the other side of that decision.
So that’s what I’m handing you. Permission. Plus some very good tools.
★★★★★
We have a monthly booking in place and it has dramatically improved everything in our relationship. Worth every penny.
CAIETA AND LEON
★★★★★
Time stood still and we had the best time building a stronger US.
AZRA KHAN
★★★★★
Truly one of the most romantic getaways we’ve experienced. We will absolutely be back.
NATALIE LAUBLI
She has everything, except two nights where nobody needs anything from her.
Give her two nights at Naughty by Nature. The hot tub, the four-poster, the treasure hunt, the playroom. Delivered to your inbox the moment you book, beautifully wrapped in a voucher she’ll want to frame.
Christmas gift for couples
Loved the playroom? Take it home.
Designed, built and tested at Naughty by Nature. Every piece in our playroom was designed by us, built by us, and road-tested by every couple who’s stayed. The cabin is the showroom. Your bedroom is next.
The Suspended
The swing guests can’t stop talking about. Comfortable for every body, beautifully made, and it disappears when the in-laws visit.
Courses
Reignite, our 8-week programme for couples who are done being roommates. Or start tonight with The Spark Reset, R495.
Intimacy essentials
Curated essentials, chosen with the same care as everything at the cabin.
Custom playrooms
Intimate spaces and furniture for private homes, lodges and boutique Airbnbs. Discreet from the first conversation to the final install.
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Ready when you are
Whether you want to stay, go deeper, learn, or build something beautiful – we’re here.
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