Wilderness, Garden Route · South Africa
You still Love each other
But somewhere along the way, desire got buried under everything else.
Through luxury stays, facilitated retreats, and education that nobody gave you growing up.
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EXCLUSIVE
Exclusive
Couples intimacy for the few who dare to feel deeply.
We craft immersive experiences, online journeys, and private erotic
spaces for couples who dare to live — and love — without limits.
Most couples don’t fall apart dramatically. They just quietly drift.
Careers. Kids. Notifications. The slow weight of routine.
You share a home, a life, a bed — and somewhere in all of it, the aliveness between you went quiet.
You’re not broken. You’re not failing. You’ve simply never been given the space, the tools, or the permission to feel fully alive together.
That’s exactly what Consensuality was built for.
Carol Momberg, founder of Consensuality
“Intimacy is an art. And most of us were never taught how to practice it.”
The getaway
A private cabin that
does things to couples.
Naughty by Nature is our adults-only luxury retreat on a macadamia nut farm in Wilderness — designed entirely around intimacy, connection, and rediscovering each other properly.
No other guests. No schedule. No pressure. Just the two of you, a four-poster bed with mirrored ceiling, a wood-fired hot tub under the stars, a private spa room, mountain lake views, paddleboarding at sunrise, a 90-minute immersive treasure hunt, and a playroom unlike anything you’ve encountered.
Add a private chef, couples massage, aphrodisiac baskets,
and curated intimacy essentials from our shop – or simply arrive
and let the cabin do what it does.
From R5,500 per night
(winter)
From R7,500 per night
(peak season)
The facilitated experience
For couples ready to go deeper than a getaway.
The Consensuality Retreat is not a cabin booking. It’s a fully facilitated, privately led intimacy experience — designed for one couple at a time, guided personally by Carol Momberg and a team of expert facilitators over 3 to 7 nights.
Emotional depth. Erotic exploration. Somatic healing. Boudoir photography. Blue lotus and cacao ceremonies. Sensory meals. Communication tools. And the two of you fully present for every moment of it.
Couples describe it as the single most powerful experience of their relationship.
From R55,000 per couple · Private · Enquiry only
The Shop
Curated intimacy
essentials – chosen with the same care we bring to everything else.
Courses
Practical, trauma-informed intimacy education for couples and women. The tools nobody taught you, finally.
Experience Gifts
Give the couple
in your life – or yourselves – something that actually matters.
Custom Design
We design bespoke playrooms and intimate furniture for private residences, lodges, and boutique Airbnbs.
Hi, i'm carol
I built Consensuality because I know what it feels like to share a bed with someone you love — and feel completely alone in it.
I spent years performing intimacy instead of feeling it. Going through the motions. Doing what I thought a good partner was supposed to do. Nobody had taught me anything different.
Then something shifted. And what I found on the other side of that door changed everything — not just in my relationship, but in who I am.
I became obsessed with understanding why intimacy breaks down — and how to bring it back. Not through pressure or performance. Through play, safety, curiosity, and genuine connection.
Everything I’ve built — the retreat, the facilitated experiences, the education — exists because I refused to believe that settling was the only option.
It isn’t. Not for you either.
Don't know where to start?
Start Tonight
Download The Sensual Ritual — a free evening ritual for lovers designed to bring you back into your bodies, and back into each other. No pressure. No performance. Just presence.
Ready when you are
Whether you want to stay, go deeper, learn, or build something beautiful – we’re here.
Every experience is personal. Every conversation is confidential.